Welcome to Make Men Emotional Again, a newsletter busting myths about masculinity and helping men have better relationships.
This is where you will…
unlearn outdated ideas about masculinity that hold men back
learn self-care practices and healthy communication skills
discover how to improve your relationship
and join a community to support and inspire you.
Join 800+ weekly readers:
Two subscription options
Subscribing for free gets you weekly posts like these:
You’ll also get my free guide: “4 ways to start improving your relationship right now.”
Upgrading your subscription ($5/month or $50/year) gets you practical, actionable advice to help with your relationship, dating, friendships, and self-care, which I deliver most Fridays in the form of a Q&A post.
Your $5 a month (or $50 a year) helps pay for my house, internet, computer, books, and other things I need to keep this project going. It also allows me to not have to see so many therapy clients every week, which has burned me out in the past.
What readers are saying
This one gave me chills. Couldn't help commenting. Keep up the amazing writing.
— Tyrone
I feel happy to know that there are other men out there challenging masculine norms and the expectations of patriarchy.
— Ru
Your advice for men is very helpful to women as well.
— Arlene
I’m the mother of two teen boys and am finding all your work incredibly helpful in raising them to be good humans.
About me
I’m Jeremy Mohler (he/him), a therapist, men’s group leader, writer, and former communications strategist for the labor movement.
Years ago, a breakup hurt me so bad that I took a chance on going to therapy. I learned how to calm my anxiety, figure out what I really want in life, and—most importantly—be nicer to myself.
Along the way, I transitioned careers from marketing for Fortune 500 tech companies to fighting for economic and racial justice in statehouses and city halls nationwide—and then to being a therapist myself. I currently see clients and lead men’s groups from where I live in Baltimore, Maryland.
From my days working in labor politics, I bring a particular lens to men’s work. I’m influenced by feminists like Silvia Federici, Nancy Fraser, and Keeanga-Yamahtta Taylor who blame capitalism for many of society’s issues. I’m curious about how capitalism has distorted our ideas about gender. I believe a different, fairer, safer, healthier way of organizing society is possible—but only through, as Martin Luther King Jr. called it, a “radical redistribution of political and economic power.”
I also want to give a shout out to my teachers and mentors, including Donald Cohen, Hetty Barnett, Tara Brach, Hugh Byrne, Natalie Goldberg, and many others.
You can follow me on Instagram here, TikTok here, and Twitter here. You can always email me about anything: jeremy@jeremymohler.blog
*By “men,” I mean people whose gender identity and expression matches the biological sex (male) they were assigned when they were born. This is often referred to as “cisgender.”
